"Dear Grown-Ups" Letter" for Students | More Than Behavior™

Dear Grown-Ups Who Love Me — a bridge between your child and home.

This is more than a letter; it’s a window into your child’s inner world.

Kids don’t come with manuals — but sometimes, they write one through this letter.

The Dear Grown-Ups Who Love Me letter opens a compassionate window into your child’s inner world — what overwhelms them, what soothes them, and how you can respond with connection instead of frustration.

We analyze how your child experiences overwhelm, motivation, and connection — then translate that into explanations you can feel and strategies you can use.

Every paragraph reveals what’s happening beneath the behavior, and every “What Helps Me Most” line becomes a mini parenting tool: what to say, what to do, and how to restore calm when emotions run high.

It’s also a powerful tool to bring parents, caregivers, and co-parents onto the same page, creating a shared language of empathy and understanding at home.

Perfect for moments of transition, anxiety, or emotional overload — or anytime families want to understand each other better. Parents often tell us this letter changes not only how they see their child, but how they see themselves as caregivers.

Perfect for:
Introduction at the beginning of the school year
Starting middle school or high school
Changing classrooms or teachers mid-year
Helping a shy or neurodivergent student build early trust.
 
Soon, families will also be able to create Dear Professor and Dear Advisor letters for college transitions—extending the same insight into higher education.
 
✨ How It Works
Purchase your letter (or mix and match — discounts apply when you add more).
Complete one secure consent and questionnaire per child (~10–12 minutes).
Invite your child (recommended age 10+) to fill in their own short version for a 360° view of learning strengths, challenges, and support needs.
Our system analyzes the emotional, cognitive, and behavioral data from both perspectives using the More Than Behavior™ Framework.
We transform those insights into a personalized letter that blends empathy with strategy — so adults can respond with understanding, not frustration.
You receive a beautiful, professional PDF you can print or share digitally.
 

Book the add-on “Mail My Letters” — we’ll print and mail your letters to any U.S. address of your choice, beautifully packaged with a little surprise for your child inside.